F o r   F a m i l y  &  F r i e n d s

Giving Shelter In A Storm

Sometimes we can be at a loss to help our friends and family during this difficult time.  We don't know what to say or do to comfort them, and we may feel that we are doing harm instead of good.  The links below are a guide to follow to provide heartfelt care when needed most.

What Now

You can be there for your family member, friend or colleague in so many ways.  The challenge is knowing how to help.  First, arm yourself with knowledge.

Dos & Don'ts To Pass Along

1.  Don't make any big decisions for a year if possible.  How you feel today may not be how you feel in six months.
2.  Listen to your emotional needs & share with someone you trust.
3.  Give people the gift of being able to help.  There's no need to do it all yourself.  People want to be there for you -- let them.
4.  Understand that it will take time to adjust.  Be patient with yourself and others.
5.  This is your grief.  There is no set timeline or "right" or "wrong" way to grieve.  

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Recommended Reading

Grieving is often such uncharted terrain for many of us.  Our belief at Hold My Hand Grief Support is that knowledge is power and we highly recommend reading to gain insight, comfort and support.  Each book we recommend is linked directly to Amazon.com for you to explore its descriptions, author information and reviews, and make purchases through your Amazon account.  Amazon.com kindly offers 10% of your purchases from our book links to help support our mission.  

We sincerely thank you for your support too!  We are working hard to make a difference for families in need.
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